Turn your pain into purpose, part 4
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Written by Sandra J Wilson

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March 1, 2023

This 5 part series called, โ€œTurn your pain into purpose,โ€ was created it to help anyone struggling with grief or loss in their life, and how I can help.

I hope that this gives you or someone you know, comfort in the journey to heal.

My Coaching Practice ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฝ ๐Ÿฐ: โ€œ๐™‹๐™ง๐™ค๐™ซ๐™ž๐™™๐™š ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™Ž๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š๐™œ๐™ž๐™š๐™จโ€

A women in a bathtub with hands to her face looking distressed

How are you coping with everything?

Today youโ€™re doing great!

Tomorrow youโ€™re curled up in a ball, ugly crying ย with the bedsheets covering your head.

Then, later, you are laughing hysterically at a sock.

Yes, a sock.

Grief.

Itโ€™s a true rollercoaster ride of emotions.

Too many of us donโ€™t know how to navigate through this unchartered territory.

We will all face grief in our lifetime, and that journey will vary from person to person.

A beautiful sunrise over the still water, with person with their arms stretched out to hug the sun.

Itโ€™s so important to not judge another personโ€™sย  journey or process.

But, many of my clients hear from their friends and family statement like:

โ€œ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™จ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™ก๐™™ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™—๐™š ๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™ฎ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ, ๐™ž๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™—๐™š๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™– ๐™ฎ๐™š๐™–๐™ง.โ€
โ€œ๐™๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™˜๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™—๐™ก๐™ž๐™˜, ๐™™๐™š๐™–๐™ง, ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ข๐™–๐™ ๐™š๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™–๐™—๐™ก๐™š.โ€
โ€œ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™ค๐™ฃ, ๐™ก๐™š๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™œ๐™ค ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ค๐™›๐™› ๐™ค๐™› ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ.โ€

Iโ€™m not implying these are horrible things to say, but, not everyone copes the same way with loss.

And itโ€™s not the same experience for everyone either.

โ€œ๐™’๐™š ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™š๐™™ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™–๐™›๐™š ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ง๐™ž๐™š๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™Ÿ๐™ช๐™™๐™ž๐™˜๐™š ๐™ค๐™ง ๐™Ÿ๐™ช๐™™๐™œ๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™›๐™ง๐™ž๐™š๐™ฃ๐™™๐™จ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™›๐™–๐™ข๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฎ, ๐™ฃ๐™ค ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ก๐™ก-๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š๐™™.โ€

I create a safe space and I will support the process without judgment.

We will gently move together to get you to the next step to finding your new sense of purpose and passion.

Grief can be overwhelming, but it can also be a powerful catalyst for personal growth.

I will help you turn your pain into purpose and guide you to find the strength to move forward.

I will help you navigate the journey and come out on the other side with a renewed sense of self and hope for the future.

Coach Sandra

* These steps will vary from client to client.

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Hereโ€™s what women can expect from me:

1. A safe space to share and listen
2. Gentle guidance to alleviate stress
3. Meditation and mindfulness practices
4. Self-care activities
5. Stress management techniques.

“Death may leave a heartache no one can heal, but a life well-lived leaves memories that no one can steal.” (from an Irish headstone. Richard Puz)

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